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Anonymous inbox:

Two married people have been in an affair with each other for years. What started out as a friendship grew into an emotional bond which lead to them falling in love. The woman’s marriage is currently going through a divorce…but the mans marriage is not. The woman in the affair is now pregnant and wants to abort the child. The man does not want her to abort. He knows that an outside child could ruin his marriage (further) by creating him an unorthodox “way of exscape” or that the shock and jealously of putting evidence with his wife’s suspicions… could cause his wife to be more attentive. A dice game. The woman wants to abort fearing that she would ultimately be forced to raise the child alone. She doesn’t want to bring a baby into the world under the current circumstances. The man is not in the best financial position to assist her or to even raise a child… but his “concern” is the baby. The woman has made plans to abort in just a few days….regardless of the man opinion. They both understand the selfishness to their actions. They’re not looking for responses of people who just want to “grab the mic and show how perfect they are”. They are seeking honest opinions of if an abortion should be a mutual agreement or if the woman (being the one to carry the load – no pun intended) makes the decision alone. If you don’t have a solid point of view…just pray for the situation. ‪#‎Respect‬.

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